Making Room Before the Holidays Arrive

Every year around this time, I start hearing the same thing from clients and friends alike. The holidays are coming, family is coming, and the house isn’t ready for guests. Maybe there are guest rooms that have become storage closets or we haven’t stayed on top of the “home organization”.  Perhaps you know new gifts […]

Moving Into Senior Living: What Nobody Tells You About the First Two Weeks

A Guide for Caregivers and Family Members The boxes (and bins) are unpacked. The furniture is placed. The move is, technically, done. But for the person who just moved, whether or not it was their choice and regardless of how beautiful the community or their apartment are, the “after” might be the hardest part.  When […]

The House Was Never Just a House: What Divorce Taught Me About Moving On

A fiery phoenix made from torn newspaper and magazine clippings, symbolizing transformation and a new beginning after divorce.

What My Grandmother Taught Me About Love and Loss My parents divorced when I was one, so I never knew them as a couple. What I did know was my grandmother’s story. Back in the early 1960s, my grandfather left her for another woman. She was left raising two kids alone, carrying the stigma of […]

The Gift of Aging

Silver Linings Transitions team members smiling with senior clients in their homes, a six-photo collage

I can’t stand the term “anti-aging.” I’ve spent more than a decade as a Senior Move Manager, walking beside families through the biggest transition of their lives. I’m also a cancer survivor. When you face a cancer diagnosis and wonder if you’ll see your children grow up, you’ll understand why “anti-aging” stops sounding like a […]

Now What? What My Empty Nest Is Teaching Me About Transitions

College move-in day: daughter packs the car as a bird leaves its nest, symbolizing an empty nest transition

This week I’m driving my youngest of three to college. When I pull out of that parking lot, I will officially be done with the thing I always knew I wanted. My whole life, I wanted to be a mom. Then I became one. For 25 years I have been in the chaos of running […]

Starting Over: What Nobody Tells You About Moving Through Divorce

Hand slicing a knife through a small model house, symbolizing dividing a home during divorce

I know what it’s like to pack up a house because a marriage ended. Shortly after I founded Silver Linings Transitions, I went through my own divorce. I moved with three kids and rebuilt my life from scratch. So when a client calls me mid-divorce, overwhelmed and not sure where to start, I’m not just […]

The Books We Can’t Let Go Of (And What To Do When It’s Time)

how to declutter books

I have a confession that might surprise you coming from someone who’s spent over a decade helping people let go of things: my own bookshelves were a disaster. Not messy. Overrun. Two, sometimes three rows deep, tucked into closets, piling up on my nightstand. I told myself I’d get to them “someday.”  When Covid happened […]